Jeyanthy Siva

EN

My work is rooted in Nonviolent Communication principles developed by Marshall Rosenberg, deepened through a de-colonial lens and an understanding of domination systems and how they facilitate systemic oppression (i.e., white supremacy, ableism, transphobia, etc.). Systems of domination display themselves in both visible and invisible ways. In some contexts, invisible ways can be most pernicious. Repairing and trust-building and the transformation of painful dynamics across power differences in relationships can occur when these systems are made explicit and harness empathy and accountability tools to address the rupture. Authentic living and transformative & compassionate communication become possible when these systems are made explicit and addressed.

I offer conflict mediation training and coaching and direct mediation & restorative circle dialogues to support individuals and groups to work through conflicts. For 20 plus years, I did training in Nonviolent Communication in different parts of the world (see below). My current training work primarily supports groups to address power differences, inclusion, equity, diversity, and anti-racism training.

Below is a narrative description that gives examples of past experience:

Jeyanthy Siva is an international trainer/facilitator, mediator and coach. She has been facilitating trainings and team retreats since 2000 and travels between Asia, Europe and the USA. In the course of her work, she has trained professionals working with refugees in the Netherlands, climate justice groups (Europe and worldwide), multi-religious clergy engaged in peacebuilding (Sri Lanka), feminist grassroots activists and peacebuilders (Thailand), development and peacebuilding organizations (East Timor, Sri Lanka), war-affected youth to heal trauma and build community and resilience (Sri Lanka) and dialogue and skill-building among groups in conflict (Nepal).

1:00 pm - 3:00 pm

Sunday May 30 2021

Beyond good intentions: What does it mean to be an ally and how can we be effective ally(s)?

Language: English.

For whom: Everyone.

Information: How to move away from paralysis of guilt/shame and helplessness and step into being active anti-racist, anti ableist, and anti-oppression in behaviour, not only with words. Experiential activities and opportunities to share and to practice how we can move into behaving in alignment with our values.

10:00 am - 12:00 pm

Saturday May 29 2021

Living with dignity and strength in the face of marginalization

Language: English.

For whom: People from marginalized/migrant groups.

Information: We will touch on the following topics: Power and how it impacts us; what is white supremacy culture/mind set and how does it show up in our lives; what are some of the legacies of colonialism that have a current impact on our lives, and more.

2:30 pm - 4:30 pm

Saturday May 29 2021

Recognizing & healing effects of marginalization (e.g. Internalized oppression and lateral violence) and building solidarity with each other

Language: English.

For whom: People from marginalized/migrant groups.

Information: How to recognize & heal impacts of oppression: Internalized oppression – what it is and how it limits us internally and in our relationships with others. Lateral violence – what it is and how it's related to Internalized oppression. Building solidarity across different kinds of oppression/ lack of privilege.

10:00 am - 12:00 pm

Friday May 28 2021

Empathy for connection, empathy for seeing deeper human beauty of self and other(s)

Language: English.

For whom: Everyone.

Information: Empathy, some teaching and lots of practising!